Ask Wendy

Your Virtual Decluttering Advice Column for Neurodivergents, Active Seniors & Those in Life Transitions

Wendy Zanders, Your Declutter Coach, smiling in a tidy kitchen, offering virtual decluttering support for neurodivergent families, active seniors, and those in life transitions.

Got Decluttering Questions?

Great News: I have Decluttering Answers!

Hey there, friend. 👋🏽 
I’m Wendy Zanders, Your Declutter Coach. I know that decluttering can feel like a mountain of a task — especially if you're navigating ADHD, Autism, Depression/Overwhelm, going through divorce or major life changes, or you are an active senior who wants to remain independent and age in place.

Take a deep breath. You’re in the right place. 💙

Here on Ask Wendy, you’ll find real, compassionate answers to the questions people ask every day from Google searches like “Where do I even start decluttering?” to deeply personal challenges inside your home, routines, and daily life.

This isn’t just about cleaning up. It’s about understanding the why and how behind the clutter so you can create systems that support your brain, your family, and your season of life.

Whether you’re a Neurodivergent adult, a parent raising a Neurodivergent child, an Active Senior, or someone going through a life transition, I’m here to help you Simplify, Organize & Thrive — one step at a time.

Have a question not answered here?
ALL questions are welcome. I look forward to personally answering your decluttering question inside the Ask Wendy column.

With warmth,
Your Declutter Coach,
Wendy

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